{"body":[{"id":"46217450324230144","sort":"0","type":1,"role":"46216336032374643","content":"男友三个多月杳无音讯，若兰一开始不以为然，但现在感受，每天生活乏味枯燥，如行尸走肉一般，所以今天约了闺蜜，下班后一起吃顿饭，聊聊天。"},{"id":"46217450324230145","sort":"1024","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"这么长时间，他就像人间蒸发了一样。"},{"id":"46217450324230146","sort":"2048","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"你们最后一次晤面是什么时候？"},{"id":"46217450324230147","sort":"3072","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"去年12月圣诞节"},{"id":"46217450324230148","sort":"4096","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"在我家四周，我们吃完晚饭，一起去看了影戏，之后我们散步，一起回家。"},{"id":"46217450324230149","sort":"5120","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"之后呢"},{"id":"46217450324230150","sort":"6144","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我们边走边聊，我跟他说，春节的时候，我希望他来我家，见一下我的怙恃。"},{"id":"46217450324230151","sort":"7168","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"在我家玩几天之后，我和他一起去他的老家，我也见一下他的怙恃。"},{"id":"46217450324230152","sort":"8192","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"这是要谈婚论嫁的节奏了吗？"},{"id":"46217450324230153","sort":"9216","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我是很认真的看待这份情感，我相信他也是真心爱我的。"},{"id":"46217450324230154","sort":"10240","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"但是他差异意，他觉得一切太快了。"},{"id":"46217450324230155","sort":"11264","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"好吧，是不是你太心急，把他给吓跑了？"},{"id":"46217450324230156","sort":"12288","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"哎…"},{"id":"46217450324230157","sort":"13312","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"他差异意我还能怎么办呢？虽然我很不开心，但我也没有再说什么了。"},{"id":"46217450324230158","sort":"14336","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"其实这不是我们第1次谈论这件事情了，之前的两次，也是因为他说一切太早而不了了之。"},{"id":"46217450324230159","sort":"15360","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"我觉得吧，见家长这个事儿，真的不能操之过急。"},{"id":"46217450324230160","sort":"16384","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"他有可能是因为压力太大，躲起来了，等他冷静过来了，就好了。"},{"id":"46217450324230161","sort":"17408","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"一开始我也反思过自己，其时他送我抵家楼下，我叫他晚上留下陪我，他允许了。"},{"id":"46217450324230162","sort":"18432","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"但是晚上，他一直翻来覆去睡不着。虽然我躺着一动不动，但这些我都看在眼里。"},{"id":"46217450324230163","sort":"19456","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我也很自责，跟他说，不要放在心上，见家长的事以后再说。"},{"id":"46217450324230164","sort":"20480","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"听起来，你处置惩罚的也没有什么问题呀"},{"id":"46217450324230165","sort":"21504","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"那厥后你们就再也没有联系了？"},{"id":"46217450324230166","sort":"22528","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"是的，第2天我们各自去上班，之后就再也没联络过"},{"id":"46217450324230167","sort":"23552","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"打他电话呢？"},{"id":"46217450324230168","sort":"24576","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"一直在线，可能是把我拉黑了吧"},{"id":"46217450324230169","sort":"25600","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"微信？"},{"id":"46217450324230170","sort":"26624","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"一开始我给他发消息，他不回复"},{"id":"46217450324230171","sort":"27648","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"厥后我，语音，视频，他都不理我"},{"id":"46217450324230172","sort":"28672","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"最后，微信也把我拉黑了"},{"id":"46217450324230173","sort":"29696","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"怎么这样啊？"},{"id":"46217450324230174","sort":"30720","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"太奇怪了"},{"id":"46217450324230175","sort":"31744","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"那你知道他在哪上班吗？"},{"id":"46217450324230176","sort":"32768","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"知道，我去他的公司找过了，同事说他已经离职了。"},{"id":"46217450324230177","sort":"33792","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"啊？"},{"id":"46217450324230178","sort":"34816","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我还去了他住的地方"},{"id":"46217450324230179","sort":"35840","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"守了好几天，厥后照旧邻居告诉我，他已经搬迁了"},{"id":"46217450324230180","sort":"36864","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"我的天呐！这人……"},{"id":"46217450324230181","sort":"37888","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"我也不知道我到底做错了什么，如果仅仅是因为见家长的问题，也不至于这样对我吧？"},{"id":"46217450324230182","sort":"38912","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"你也别太惆怅，虽然我知道你们在谈恋爱，但你也很少跟我谈起他"},{"id":"46217450324230183","sort":"39936","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"你觉得他性格怎么样呢？"},{"id":"46217450324230184","sort":"40960","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"他人挺好的，我们真的无话不说，我感受他是我遇到的最懂我的人呢"},{"id":"46217450324230185","sort":"41984","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"他性格是有点内向，但是跟我在一起的时候，很生动，也很有诙谐感"},{"id":"46217450324230186","sort":"43008","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"只是在陌生人面前，不善言谈"},{"id":"46217450324230187","sort":"44032","type":1,"role":"46216712378876628","content":"他有跟你谈起过他的家人吗？他是不是有什么心事？"},{"id":"46217450324230188","sort":"45056","type":1,"role":"46216669445991316","content":"他有跟我说起过"},{"id":"46217450324230189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